Troubled Young Men Need Fathers, Big Brothers Letter Of The Week: From Aug. 25

As the single parent mother of an adolescent boy who’s showing interest in gang-related activities, I’m very disturbed by the recent murder of Kendra Grantham and Cindy Buffin.

I can understand the anger of the Champagne family, that tells us Doug was regrettably in the “wrong place at the wrong time.” I can also imagine the horror of Comeslast’s family as they must now confront the incredible burden and devastation of Kenneth’s apparent crime. I fear these outcomes, for myself and for my son, every day.

I’ve turned to The Spokesman-Review’s Roundtable for reactions to the growing problem of gang violence in our community. I was sure I would find signs of an awakening here, but I’ve found nothing.

Listen, Spokane: There are children like Kenneth growing up right under your noses. They are boys without fathers, boys without positive role models.

The juvenile criminal justice system is a Band-aid. It doesn’t address the needs of these boys and can’t ensure the safety of your family. What these boys really need is an ongoing, positive, one-on-one relationship with another male.

To the men of Spokane: Look for boys without fathers in your own neighborhoods; there they are. Become a Big Brother. My son never received one, although he was on the list for many years. There are simply not enough volunteers to fill the need. Take the time, have a heart. You’re their village and they need you desperately. Jo Ellen Garrison Spokane

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