Fill in the blank ... everything is my father's fault ... or my mother's fault. Which is what you hear young adults and some times mid-life adults say. The truth of the matter is ... everything that happens to you between the ages of 0 to 18 is yours and your parents fault. Everything that happens from 18 to now, is your fault. You are in the drivers seat and have been since you got out of high school. It is not your parents duty to make you happy after you turn 18. It is your duty. If they want to help you, that is ok, but it is NOT their duty/Cis, Simple Mind. More here.

Question: Who do you blame/credit for turning out the way you did?